How To Get A Guy To Notice You While You're Having Sex With Him
Today Now! dating expert Rebeccah Rachel shares tips for getting the attention of that cute guy who's thrusting his erection inside of you.
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Jim Haggerty: Right now, ladies,
have you ever had this problem?
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You're into a fellow but you feel like
you just aren't catching his eye.
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Tracy Gill: Don't worry.
Relationship guru Rebeccah Rachel is here
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to tell us how to get the attention of a
man while you're having sex with him.
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Jim Haggerty: Good morning, Rebeccah.
Rebeccah Rachel: Hi, guys.
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Well, we've all been there, right?
You have a crush on a guy.
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He is thrusting his erection on you,
but you're lying there wondering,
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"Does he even know I exist?"
Tracy Gill: Definitely. What do we do?
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Rebeccah Rachel: Well, you have
to make him notice you.
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Don't just bounce around on his penis hoping
he is going to compliment your new earrings.
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Jim Haggerty: Oh, that's not going to happen.
Tracy Gill: Oh no.
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Rebeccah Rachel: So you want to try
something subtle to get his attention,
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like accidentally brushing your hand
against his while he is pounding you,
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or make up an excuse to ask him a question,
something to just get him to break his
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normal routine so you can share a moment.
Tracy Gill: You do an opening to flirt.
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Rebeccah Rachel: Bingo.
You have to stand out from the crowd.
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When he stops to adjust his condom, flash
him a little "I think you're cute" smile
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before he slides himself back into you,
something to just plant the thought
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of you in the back of his mind.
Tracy Gill: So how do you keep him iterested?
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Rebeccah Rachel: One thing you can do
is you can have an accessory wall
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full of hats or scarves or fun bracelets.
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That way, you can throw one on to create
a funky fresh new look
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that will make him sit up and say,
"Who is this new girl sitting on my dick?"
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Tracy Gill: Love it.
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All right, there are a few questions
from our viewers.
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The first one is from Hilary
from New York.
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Hilary Leichter: Hi guys.
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I can't seem to get the guy I'm sleeping
with to pay any attention to me.
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I mean he never even makes eye contact.
Jim Haggerty: Oh, good question.
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Rebeccah Rachel: Try throwing a
ball or a small object at him.
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It's a great excuse to start a conversation,
like, "Hey, where did that ball come from?"
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Jim Haggerty: Ooh, sassy!
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Tracy Gill: All right, this next
one is from Lisl in Palo Alto, California.
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Lisl Esherick: Hey guys, how do I know
if the guy I'm having sex with
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is into me while he ejaculates?
Jim Haggerty: Hmm.
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Tracy Gill: Good question.
Rebeccah Rachel: Well, Lisl, the old saying
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that the quickest way to a man's
heart is through his stomach is true.
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So why not whip up some tasty treats
while your guy is fucking you?
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Jim Haggerty: Wow!
Rebeccah Rachel: You just want to be sure
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that you have a mixing bowl,
a shallow pan, some key ingredients,
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and a small oven under your bed.
And when he comes, you can have a fresh
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cookie ready for him.
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Jim Haggerty: Oh, that would win me
Tracy Gill: Right.
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Rebeccah Rachel: But you know, the
most important tip is to just be yourself.
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Men love blowing their load
into a confident woman.
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Jim Haggerty: No question about that.
That is a great message.
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Rebeccah, thanks so much
for being with us again.
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Tracy Gill: You can see even more
of Rebeccah's tips in her upcoming book,
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"I'm Right Under You!
How to Hook that Cute Guy in Your Vagina"
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available next month.
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Stick around because when we come back,
we'll show you how to prevent cancer
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by removing your organs now!
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