How To Get A Guy To Notice You While You're Having Sex With Him

Today Now! dating expert Rebeccah Rachel shares tips for getting the attention of that cute guy who's thrusting his erection inside of you.

00:00:01.650,00:00:03.780 Jim Haggerty: Right now, ladies, have you ever had this problem? 00:00:04.010,00:00:07.450 You're into a fellow but you feel like you just aren't catching his eye. 00:00:07.620,00:00:10.730 Tracy Gill: Don't worry. Relationship guru Rebeccah Rachel is here 00:00:10.860,00:00:14.270 to tell us how to get the attention of a man while you're having sex with him. 00:00:14.370,00:00:16.220 Jim Haggerty: Good morning, Rebeccah. Rebeccah Rachel: Hi, guys. 00:00:16.380,00:00:18.820 Well, we've all been there, right? You have a crush on a guy. 00:00:18.960,00:00:21.730 He is thrusting his erection on you, but you're lying there wondering, 00:00:21.870,00:00:25.280 "Does he even know I exist?" Tracy Gill: Definitely. What do we do? 00:00:25.380,00:00:27.650 Rebeccah Rachel: Well, you have to make him notice you. 00:00:27.890,00:00:31.200 Don't just bounce around on his penis hoping he is going to compliment your new earrings. 00:00:31.360,00:00:32.830 Jim Haggerty: Oh, that's not going to happen. Tracy Gill: Oh no. 00:00:33.040,00:00:34.910 Rebeccah Rachel: So you want to try something subtle to get his attention, 00:00:35.110,00:00:38.120 like accidentally brushing your hand against his while he is pounding you, 00:00:38.320,00:00:43.300 or make up an excuse to ask him a question, something to just get him to break his 00:00:43.580,00:00:46.070 normal routine so you can share a moment. Tracy Gill: You do an opening to flirt. 00:00:46.420,00:00:49.490 Rebeccah Rachel: Bingo. You have to stand out from the crowd. 00:00:49.690,00:00:53.000 When he stops to adjust his condom, flash him a little "I think you're cute" smile 00:00:53.130,00:00:56.810 before he slides himself back into you, something to just plant the thought 00:00:56.910,00:01:00.390 of you in the back of his mind. Tracy Gill: So how do you keep him iterested? 00:01:00.550,00:01:03.100 Rebeccah Rachel: One thing you can do is you can have an accessory wall 00:01:03.300,00:01:06.640 full of hats or scarves or fun bracelets. 00:01:06.840,00:01:10.050 That way, you can throw one on to create a funky fresh new look 00:01:10.220,00:01:13.130 that will make him sit up and say, "Who is this new girl sitting on my dick?" 00:01:13.330,00:01:13.870 Tracy Gill: Love it. 00:01:14.060,00:01:15.940 All right, there are a few questions from our viewers. 00:01:16.140,00:01:17.880 The first one is from Hilary from New York. 00:01:18.150,00:01:18.920 Hilary Leichter: Hi guys. 00:01:19.150,00:01:21.890 I can't seem to get the guy I'm sleeping with to pay any attention to me. 00:01:22.090,00:01:25.600 I mean he never even makes eye contact. Jim Haggerty: Oh, good question. 00:01:26.040,00:01:28.580 Rebeccah Rachel: Try throwing a ball or a small object at him. 00:01:28.820,00:01:33.130 It's a great excuse to start a conversation, like, "Hey, where did that ball come from?" 00:01:33.260,00:01:34.700 Jim Haggerty: Ooh, sassy! 00:01:34.900,00:01:38.480 Tracy Gill: All right, this next one is from Lisl in Palo Alto, California. 00:01:38.710,00:01:41.380 Lisl Esherick: Hey guys, how do I know if the guy I'm having sex with 00:01:41.520,00:01:43.930 is into me while he ejaculates? Jim Haggerty: Hmm. 00:01:44.120,00:01:46.560 Tracy Gill: Good question. Rebeccah Rachel: Well, Lisl, the old saying 00:01:46.700,00:01:49.680 that the quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach is true. 00:01:49.880,00:01:53.690 So why not whip up some tasty treats while your guy is fucking you? 00:01:53.660,00:01:55.050 Jim Haggerty: Wow! Rebeccah Rachel: You just want to be sure 00:01:55.150,00:01:58.070 that you have a mixing bowl, a shallow pan, some key ingredients, 00:01:58.240,00:02:02.080 and a small oven under your bed. And when he comes, you can have a fresh 00:02:02.250,00:02:03.320 cookie ready for him. 00:02:03.520,00:02:04.930 Jim Haggerty: Oh, that would win me Tracy Gill: Right. 00:02:05.190,00:02:09.160 Rebeccah Rachel: But you know, the most important tip is to just be yourself. 00:02:09.450,00:02:12.280 Men love blowing their load into a confident woman. 00:02:12.480,00:02:14.950 Jim Haggerty: No question about that. That is a great message. 00:02:15.300,00:02:16.730 Rebeccah, thanks so much for being with us again. 00:02:17.070,00:02:20.480 Tracy Gill: You can see even more of Rebeccah's tips in her upcoming book, 00:02:20.640,00:02:23.110 "I'm Right Under You! How to Hook that Cute Guy in Your Vagina" 00:02:23.380,00:02:24.810 available next month. 00:02:25.120,00:02:27.730 Stick around because when we come back, we'll show you how to prevent cancer 00:02:28.070,00:02:29.270 by removing your organs now! 00:02:32.020,00:02:34.990 Male Speaker: Later on in the newsroom, the government has designated next Friday as 00:02:35.090,00:02:37.170 "Take Your Child To Help You Look For Work Day." 00:02:37.270,00:02:38.130 Stay tuned.